If you are looking for the best places to meet girls in Phoenix and a dating guide then you are in the right place as we have plenty of recently updated information to share about picking up single women in your area along with many good date spots to try to wine and dine them at.
Most of our city guides focus on the downtown area and of course we covered it in this one but since this metro has such distinct suburbs like Scottsdale, Mesa, Glendale, Gilbert, Tempe and Chandler we tried to separate everything out for you. To make it easier to get a lay of the land there is a full singles nightlife and date spot map towards the end with hundreds of places pinned on it.
Kicking us off will be the best places to meet girls in the Phoenix nightlife as there are plenty of good nightclubs and pick up bars around this city and we have a lengthy updated list for you to choose from.
Table of Contents
- 1 Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars
- 2 Meet Phoenix Girls During The Day
- 3 Chat With Girls Online
- 4 Phoenix Dating Guide
- 5 Day Date Ideas
- 6 Scottsdale Date & Pick Up Spots
- 7 Party With Arizona State Girls In Tempe
- 8 Singles Bars In Glendale
- 9 More Choices In Gilbert
- 10 Mesa Dating & Nightlife Guide
- 11 Where To Meet Women In Chandler
Trying to meet women near you in the day and online dating will get a shout out, dating sites are helping people hook up as much if not more then bars are these days. Then we will move on to our local dating guide.
Romantic restaurants, lounges, cocktail bars, cheap date spots and casual places to go during the day will be mentioned. By the time you finish reading this post you can come up with many different game plans that will suit your tastes.
Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars
The best nightclubs and singles bars to pick up girls in Phoenix would be:
- Bar Smith at 2341, 130 E Washington St
- Monarch Theatre at 122 E Washington St
- Rhythm Room at 1019 E Indian School Rd
- The Duce at 525 S Central Ave
- Club Dwntwn at 702 N Central Ave
- Tru Ultra Lounge at 915 N Central Ave
- Bitter & Twisted Cocktail Parlour at 1 W Jefferson St
- Lustre Rooftop Bar at Hotel Palomar, 2 E Jefferson St
- Gracie’s Tax Bar at 711 N Seventh Ave
- The Van Buren at 401 W Van Buren St
- Liars Club at 130 N Central Ave
- Killer Whale Sex Club at 922 N 6th St
- The Whining Pig at 1612 E Bethany Home Rd
- UnderTow at 3620 E Indian School Rd B
- Valley Bar at 130 N Central Ave
- Stardust Pinbar at 401 W Van Buren St #C
There are plenty of good nightclubs and bars to meet single women in the nightlife around the metro and that list really focuses on the downtown area. Expect to find plenty more clubs and pick up bars to visit as you continue to scroll down.
As you can see some of the best clubs to meet girls in your area are located on East Washington Street while a few more good downtown singles nightlife districts to try and get laid can be found on Jefferson Street or along Roosevelt Row. Renting a room near any of the above wouldn’t be a bad idea if you are traveling through town.
More highly concentrated bar districts outside of the downtown Phoenix nightlife to meet girls include Mill Avenue in Tempe which is the heart of the notorious Arizona State nightlife as well as Old Town Scottsdale. Don’t take what we are about to say as full on facts as there can be a lot of crossover between the areas but generally speaking Mill Avenue is the best to hook up with college girls and should be a little cheaper, downtown has more of a hipster vibe, and Scottsdale is where to find upscale cocktail bars and clubs with bottle service that will eat your cash quick.
We have also covered spending a weekend partying in Las Vegas if you ever plan to visit and hope to get laid there.
Meet Phoenix Girls During The Day
Day game isn’t always easy but if you head over to Tempe to try and meet local girls in Phoenix during the day you might have some success as the Arizona State University campus and surrounding areas which will have some very sexy girls on foot day and night.
Well, at least as long as classes are in session and if you go to cafes, shops, or Papago Park nearby it shouldn’t be long until you see a head turner. Throughout the summer and as long as the weather stays hot you can also go to pool parties like:
- Maya Dayclub at 7333 E Indian Plaza, Scottsdale
- Vibe Ultra at Talking Stick Resort, 9800 Talking Stick Way, Scottsdale
- Wet Deck at W Hotel, 7277 E Camelback Rd, Scottsdale
- Hotel Valley Ho at 6850 E Main St, Scottsdale
- Eden Rooftop Bar at Kimpton Hotel Palomar, 2 E Jefferson St
As you can see many of those are in Scottsdale and most are at hotels, don’t worry you can still go party at them even if you aren’t staying at the hotel. With that said it may make it a lot more likely you hook up if you have a room on site.
The Roosevelt Row arts district could prove fruitful, and a few other good spots to meet women in your area would be:
- Biltmore Fashion Park
- Shops at Norterra
- Desert Ridge Marketplace
- High Street
- Uptown Plaza
- The Pavilions at Talking Stick
CityScape and Talking Stick offer both pool parties and shopping areas so you can double up. Lux Coffee Shop at 4400 North Central Avenue could also be a solid daytime pick up spot.
Chat With Girls Online
Remember when people used to look down at online dating? When it first started to become a thing everyone was ashamed to mention that they had given it a shot. These days if you ask anyone under 25 if they would rather meet someone online or at a singles bar most will choose to use the internet.
The reasons are pretty simple, you have a much wider selection when it comes to trying to meet girls in Phoenix online. Your only option isn’t to go out to a pick up bar and hook up with whoever happens to smile at you from across the room if anyone ever does.
Instead of that just think about how much easier you job will be when you can message as many girls in your area as you want, text with each other, and see if you have anything in common. There are plenty of great dating sites out there to try and find a long term relationship, but what if your only goal is to get laid with no strings attached? Try out Adult Friend Finder.
There were over five hundred Phoenix women on this online hook up site at our last check, and around a thousand more across Arizona. They aren’t signing up to Adult Friend Finder because they want to chat about their feelings, they want to hook up and are waiting for guys to message them right now.
Phoenix Dating Guide
Now you know about many of the best spots to meet single girls near you, lets turn our attention to where to go on a date. Meeting women is half the battle, you still have plenty of work to do if you are hoping to hook up.
This dating guide for Phoenix will have plenty of recommendations. You can take the links and learn a bit more about each spot if you want, that way you can see if they sound like a place you or your date will like and if they fall within your budget.
Some very nice romantic restaurants for a date night would be:
- Steak 44 at 5101 N 44th St
- Postino Wine Cafe with multiple locations
- Kai at the Sheraton Grand at 5594 Wild Horse Pass Blvd
- Different Pointe of View at 11111 N 7th St
- Mora Italian at 5651 N 7th St
- Wright’s at the Biltmore at 2400 E Missouri Ave
- Quiessence at 6106 S 32nd St
- Harumi Sushi & Sake at 114 W Adams St c101
- Doughbird at 4385 E Indian School Rd
- North Italia in Arcadia & Scottsdale
If you wanted some good cocktail bars for a more casual and likely cheaper date in Phoenix check out:
- The Clever Koi at 4236 N Central Ave #100
- The Dunes Lounge at 3611 W Dunlap Ave
- Cobra Arcade Bar at 801 N 2nd St
- The Little Woody at 4228 E Indian School Rd
- The Yard/Culinary Dropout at 5640 N 7th St
Little Woody, The Yard and Cobra Arcade all have different types of games and activities you can do if you think the conversation will be lacking. Of course the pick up bars and nightclubs listed above are not only good for meeting local single girls but could also make for a good casual date spot.
You could check out the Downtown Phoenix Art Walk for their First Friday events, or the AZ Science Center also has a wine event on the first Friday of each month that would be a perfect.
Another good cheap date in Phoenix would be to head to one of the numerous comedy clubs in town. Some of our favorites are:
- Stand Up Live at 50 W Jefferson St
- Rick Bronson’s House of Comedy AZ at 5350 E High St #105
- Tempe Improv at 930 E University Dr
And then you have all kinds of live music and entertainment venues like:
- The Footprint Center at 201 E Jefferson St
- Celebrity Theater at 440 N 32nd St
- Arizona Financial Theatre at 400 W Washington St
- Orpheum Theatre at 203 W Adams St
- CB Live at 21001 N Tatum Blvd
Depending on who is performing you might also be able to hook up with new women at some of the above spots.
Day Date Ideas
It is pretty easy to find good spots to take your girl out after dark, but finding day dates in Phoenix is a little tougher. That is true of any city actually, but we do have some ideas for you here.
The bars with games we just mentioned like Cobra Arcade would not be a bad choice, nor would going to the Phoenix Rock Gym at 1353 E University Dr in Tempe. A great brunch spot is Tuck Shop at 2245 N 12th St.
You could always just pack a picnic and head to outdoor areas like:
- Granada Park
- Encanto Park
- Desert Botanical Garden
- Meteor Crater
- The Grand Canyon
There are also some good museums and historic places to check out like:
- Heard Museum
- Phoenix Art Museum
- Bentley Gallery
- Musical Instrument Museum
- Arizona Science Center
One of the biggest parties you can find in this city every year is during the Phoenix Open golf tournament that is usually held during the weekend of the Super Bowl. You won’t hear many golf claps as this is where the tour lets loose and everyone is out to have a good time.
It would make for a great casual day date and could be a good place to try and hook up with women as well. For a weekend getaway maybe try San Diego?
Scottsdale Date & Pick Up Spots
We aren’t going to go too in depth here, but we do have some good spots for a date or to try and pick up single girls in Scottsdale like:
- Cake Nightclub at 4405 N Saddlebag Tr
- Wasted Grain at 7295 E Stetson Dr
- Bottled Blonde at 7340 E Indian Pl #100
- Boondocks Patio & Grill at 4341 N 75th St
- The Hot Chick at 4363 N 75th St
- Blue Martini Lounge at 5455 E High St #101
- Rockbar Inc. at 4245 N Craftsman Ct
- Rusty Spur Saloon at 7245 E Main St
- Eddie V’s Prime Seafood at 15323 N Scottsdale Rd
- Handlebar J at 7116 E Becker Ln
- Bevvy Food & Drink at 4420 N Saddlebag Tr #100
Don’t forget about Maya who we linked you to earlier in the where to meet women in the day section as it is also a popular nightclub. Downtown Scottsdale will have the most pick up bars, and good restaurants for a date night like:
- Roka Akor at 7299 N Scottsdale Rd
- Cafe Monarch at 6939 E 1st Ave
- Mastro’s Steakhouse at 8852 E Pinnacle Peak Rd
- Evo at 4175 N Goldwater Blvd
- FnB Restaurant at 7125 E 5th Ave #31
- T. Cook’s at 5200 E Camelback Rd, at Royal Palms Resort
To meet local girls during the day visit shopping malls and areas like:
- Scottsdale Fashion Square
- The Pavilions at Talking Stick Shopping Cente
- Kierland Commons
- Scottsdale Quarter
- The Promenade
For a date during the day go to the Scottsdale Museum of Contemporary Art or the Desert Botanical Garden.
Party With Arizona State Girls In Tempe
Look at any ‘biggest party schools’ list and Arizona State University in Tempe is going to be up near the top of it. So it goes to reason that if you want to hook up with girls in Phoenix going to party near the university wouldn’t be a bad idea.
Many of the best singles bars can be found on Mill Avenue and that would be a great place to try and get laid. Some of our favorite spots to meet Tempe girls are:
- Aura at 411 S Mill Ave #201
- Casey Moore’s Oyster House at 850 South Ash Ave
- Mill Cue Club at 607 S Mill Ave
- Shady Park at 26 E University Dr
- Fat Tuesday at 680 S Mill Ave
- Zuma at 605 S Mill Ave
Singles Bars In Glendale
We have a couple of good spots to take a date or meet girls in Glendale:
- Tony’s Cocktail Lounge at 5930 W Greenway Rd #5
- Lucie’s Sage & Sand Bar at 13831 W Glendale Ave
- Kimmyz On Greenway at 5930 W Greenway Rd
Lucie’s is a great spot for a cheap date.
More Choices In Gilbert
And if you are trying to hook up in Gilbert you can probably find some sexy women at:
Mesa Dating & Nightlife Guide
When looking for the best singles nightlife in Mesa to pick up girls or go on dates focus on Main Street. Many of the best bars, restaurants, and nightclubs in the city are located here.
Some of the best places to grab a drink or party would be:
- Low Key Piano Bar at 501 S Mill Ave #B101
- Kats Korner at 446 E Broadway Rd
- Karamba Nightclub at 1724 E McDowell Rd
- Denim & Diamonds at 7336 E Main St
- Nile Theater at 105 West Main St
- The HUB Grill & Bar at 1925 S Sossaman Rd
- Roosters Country at 3731 E Main St
- Boulders on Southern at 1010 W Southern Ave #1
- O’Kelley’s Sports Bar & Grill at 2120 W Guadalupe Rd # 16
Good restaurants for your Mesa date night are:
- Vincitorio’s Restaurant at 1835 E Elliot Rd #C109
- Charleston’s Restaurant at 1623 S Stapley Dr
- Golden Gate Chinese Restaurant at 2640 W Baseline Rd
- Alessia’s at 5251 E Brown Rd
The Mesa Arts Center would also make for a good date spot during the day.
Where To Meet Women In Chandler
And for some good spots to try and meet women in Chandler head to:
- Sandbar at 7200 W Ray Rd
- The Perch Brewery at 232 S Wall St
- SanTan Brewing at 8 S San Marcos Pl
- The Ostrich in Crowne Plaza Resort, 10 N San Marcos Pl #B1
- QuartHaus at 201 S Washington St
We know we covered a lot of ground throughout this post so here is a dating and singles nightlife map, use the light rail to get around cheaply while avoiding a DUI.
Enjoy Dating Phoenix Girls
Well, we covered this metro area about as well as we could. If you know of any other spots that are worth checking out then leave them in the comments and we will try to add them to the lists.
As this city continues to grow more single women will be moving in near you. Don’t forget that many of them will hop on Adult Friend Finder when they hope to get laid and don’t yet have a boyfriend to help them out with their little problem.
That wraps up our best places to meet girls in Phoenix with the recently updated dating guide, enjoy your time here.