2025’s Best Places To Meet Girls In Phoenix (W/ Dating Guide)
If you are looking for the best places to meet girls in Phoenix and a dating guide then you are in the right place as we have plenty of recently updated information to share about picking up single women in your area along with many good date spots to try to wine and dine them at.
Most of our city guides focus on the downtown area and of course we covered it in this one but since this metro has such distinct suburbs like Scottsdale, Mesa, Glendale, Gilbert, Tempe and Chandler we tried to separate everything out for you. To make it easier to get a lay of the land there is a full singles nightlife and date spot map towards the end with hundreds of places pinned on it.
Kicking us off will be the best places to meet girls in the Phoenix nightlife as there are plenty of good nightclubs and pick up bars around this city and we have a lengthy updated list for you to choose from.
Trying to meet women near you in the day and online dating will get a shout out, dating sites are helping people hook up as much if not more then bars are these days. Then we will move on to our local dating guide.
Romantic restaurants, lounges, cocktail bars, cheap date spots and casual places to go during the day will be mentioned. By the time you finish reading this post you can come up with many different game plans that will suit your tastes.
Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars
The best nightclubs and singles bars to pick up girls in Phoenix would be:
There are plenty of good nightclubs and bars to meet single women in the nightlife around the metro and that list really focuses on the downtown area. Expect to find plenty more clubs and pick up bars to visit as you continue to scroll down.
As you can see some of the best clubs to meet girls in your area are located on East Washington Street while a few more good downtown singles nightlife districts to try and get laid can be found on Jefferson Street or along Roosevelt Row. Renting a room near any of the above wouldn’t be a bad idea if you are traveling through town.
More highly concentrated bar districts outside of the downtown Phoenix nightlife to meet girls include Mill Avenue in Tempe which is the heart of the notorious Arizona State nightlife as well as Old Town Scottsdale.
Don’t take what we are about to say as full on facts as there can be a lot of crossover between the areas but generally speaking Mill Avenue is the best to hook up with college girls and should be a little cheaper, downtown has more of a hipster vibe, and Scottsdale is where to find upscale cocktail bars and clubs with bottle service that will eat your cash quick.
Day game isn’t always easy but if you head over to Tempe to try and meet local girls in Phoenix during the day you might have some success as the Arizona State University campus and surrounding areas which will have some very sexy girls on foot day and night.
Well, at least as long as classes are in session and if you go to cafes, shops, or Papago Park nearby it shouldn’t be long until you see a head turner. Throughout the summer and as long as the weather stays hot you can also go to pool parties like:
As you can see many of those are in Scottsdale and most are at hotels, don’t worry you can still go party at them even if you aren’t staying at the hotel. With that said it may make it a lot more likely you hook up if you have a room on site.
The Roosevelt Row arts district could prove fruitful, and a few other good spots to meet women in your area would be:
Biltmore Fashion Park
Shops at Norterra
Desert Ridge Marketplace
High Street
Uptown Plaza
CityScape
The Pavilions at Talking Stick
CityScape and Talking Stick offer both pool parties and shopping areas so you can double up. Lux Coffee Shop at 4400 North Central Avenue could also be a solid daytime pick up spot.
Chat With Girls Online
Remember when people used to look down at online dating? When it first started to become a thing everyone was ashamed to mention that they had given it a shot. These days if you ask anyone under 25 if they would rather meet someone online or at a singles bar most will choose to use the internet.
The reasons are pretty simple, you have a much wider selection when it comes to trying to meet girls in Phoenix online. Your only option isn’t to go out to a pick up bar and hook up with whoever happens to smile at you from across the room if anyone ever does.
Instead of that just think about how much easier you job will be when you can message as many girls in your area as you want, text with each other, and see if you have anything in common. There are plenty of great dating sites out there to try and find a long term relationship, but what if your only goal is to get laid with no strings attached? Try out Adult Friend Finder.
There were over five hundred Phoenix women on this online hook up site at our last check, and around a thousand more across Arizona. They aren’t signing up to Adult Friend Finder because they want to chat about their feelings, they want to hook up and are waiting for guys to message them right now.
Phoenix Dating Guide
Now you know about many of the best spots to meet single girls near you, lets turn our attention to where to go on a date. Meeting women is half the battle, you still have plenty of work to do if you are hoping to hook up.
This dating guide for Phoenix will have plenty of recommendations. You can take the links and learn a bit more about each spot if you want, that way you can see if they sound like a place you or your date will like and if they fall within your budget.
Some very nice romantic restaurants for a date night would be:
Little Woody, The Yard and Cobra Arcade all have different types of games and activities you can do if you think the conversation will be lacking. Of course the pick up bars and nightclubs listed above are not only good for meeting local single girls but could also make for a good casual date spot.
You could check out the Downtown Phoenix Art Walk for their First Friday events, or the AZ Science Center also has a wine event on the first Friday of each month that would be a perfect.
Another good cheap date in Phoenix would be to head to one of the numerous comedy clubs in town. Some of our favorites are:
Depending on who is performing you might also be able to hook up with new women at some of the above spots.
Day Date Ideas
It is pretty easy to find good spots to take your girl out after dark, but finding day dates in Phoenix is a little tougher. That is true of any city actually, but we do have some ideas for you here.
The bars with games we just mentioned like Cobra Arcade would not be a bad choice, nor would going to the Phoenix Rock Gym at 1353 E University Dr in Tempe. A great brunch spot is Tuck Shop at 2245 N 12th St.
You could always just pack a picnic and head to outdoor areas like:
Granada Park
Encanto Park
Desert Botanical Garden
Sedona
Meteor Crater
The Grand Canyon
There are also some good museums and historic places to check out like:
Heard Museum
Phoenix Art Museum
Bentley Gallery
Musical Instrument Museum
Arizona Science Center
One of the biggest parties you can find in this city every year is during the Phoenix Open golf tournament that is usually held during the weekend of the Super Bowl. You won’t hear many golf claps as this is where the tour lets loose and everyone is out to have a good time.
It would make for a great casual day date and could be a good place to try and hook up with women as well. For a weekend getaway maybe try San Diego? Or if you are on your own maybe go try to meet some beautiful single women in Los Angeles.
Scottsdale Date & Pick Up Spots
We aren’t going to go too in depth here, but we do have some good spots for a date or to try and pick up single girls in Scottsdale like:
Don’t forget about Maya who we linked you to earlier in the where to meet women in the day section as it is also a popular nightclub. Downtown Scottsdale will have the most pick up bars, and good restaurants for a date night like:
To meet local girls during the day visit shopping malls and areas like:
Scottsdale Fashion Square
The Pavilions at Talking Stick Shopping Cente
Kierland Commons
Scottsdale Quarter
The Promenade
For a date during the day go to the Scottsdale Museum of Contemporary Art or the Desert Botanical Garden.
Party With Arizona State Girls In Tempe
Look at any ‘biggest party schools’ list and Arizona State University in Tempe is going to be up near the top of it. So it goes to reason that if you want to hook up with girls in Phoenix going to party near the university wouldn’t be a bad idea.
Many of the best singles bars can be found on Mill Avenue and that would be a great place to try and get laid. Some of our favorite spots to meet Tempe girls are:
When Tempe girls want to get wild during spring break they often go party at Lake Havasu where they often mix with the U of A girls from Tucson plus other colleges in the southwest.
Singles Bars In Glendale
We have a couple of good spots to take a date or meet girls in Glendale:
When looking for the best singles nightlife in Mesa to pick up girls or go on dates focus on Main Street. Many of the best bars, restaurants, and nightclubs in the city are located here.
Some of the best places to grab a drink or party would be:
And for a good date spot head to The Ostrich at 7871, 10 N San Marcos Pl. If you are fortunate enough to meet a really special local girl sweep her off her feet by taking her to Playa del Carmen.
We know we covered a lot of ground throughout this post so here is a dating and singles nightlife map, use the light rail to get around cheaply while avoiding a DUI.
Enjoy Dating Phoenix Girls
Well, we covered this metro area about as well as we could. If you know of any other spots that are worth checking out then leave them in the comments and we will try to add them to the lists.
As this city continues to grow more single women will be moving in near you. Don’t forget that many of them will hop on Adult Friend Finder when they hope to get laid and don’t yet have a boyfriend to help them out with their little problem.
That wraps up our best places to meet girls in Phoenix with the recently updated dating guide, enjoy your time here.
