Last updated on June 10th, 2021
If you are looking for the best places to meet girls in Phoenix and a dating guide then welcome to our post. We have plenty of information here to help you pick up single women around town and many good date spots to try to wine and dine them as well.
This city is expanding at a rapid rate, over half a million people have moved into town since 2010. Suburbs like Scottsdale, Mesa, Glendale, Gilbert and Tempe are getting more and more crowded and they will be briefly covered in this guide as well.
We will begin with the best places to meet single girls in the Phoenix nightlife. There are a few good nightclubs and plenty of pick up bars around this city and we have a lengthy list for you to choose from.
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Day game will come next, and in our opinion for this you will be best off over by the University in Tempe. Online dating will be covered, dating sites are helping people hook up as much if not more then bars are these days.
Then we will move on to our local dating guide. Romantic restaurants, lounges, cocktail bars, cheap date spots and casual places to go during the day will be covered. By the time you finish reading this post you can come up with many different game plans that will suit your tastes.
Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars
Some of the best singles bars and nightclubs to try and hook up with girls in Phoenix would be:
- Bar Smith at 2341, 130 E Washington St
- Monarch Theatre at 122 E Washington St
- Rhythm Room at 1019 E Indian School Rd
- Gypsy Bar at 50 W Jefferson St
- The Duce at 525 S Central Ave
- Club Dwntwn at 702 N Central Ave
- Bitter & Twisted Cocktail Parlour at 1 W Jefferson St
- Lustre Rooftop Bar at Hotel Palomar, 2 E Jefferson St
- Gracie’s Tax Bar at 711 N Seventh Ave
- The Van Buren at 401 W Van Buren St
- The Whining Pig at 1612 E Bethany Home Rd
- UnderTow at 3620 E Indian School Rd B
There are plenty of good nightclubs and bars to meet singles in the nightlife here. It is mostly a bar scene though, we have listed the clubs at the top of that list but if you are expecting many world class nightclubs with international DJ’s coming through to turn the tables you might be a little disappointed.
In that case just hop in the car and spend a weekend partying in Las Vegas and hope to get laid there. The venues in the above list are mostly in the downtown area, we will be covering the suburbs a little later on.
As you can see some of the best clubs are located on E Washington Street, and a good bar & singles nightlife district to try and get laid can be found on Jefferson Street. Renting a room near there wouldn’t be a bad idea if you are traveling through town.
Meet Phoenix Girls During The Day
Day game isn’t always easy but if you head over to Tempe to try and meet girls in Phoenix during the day you might have some success. The Arizona State University campus and surrounding areas will have some very sexy girls on foot day and night.
Go to cafes, shops, or Papago Park nearby and it won’t be long until you see a head turner. A few other good spots for day game would be:
- Biltmore Fashion Park
- Shops at Norterra
- High Street
- Uptown Plaza
Lux Coffee Shop at 4400 North Central Avenue could also work, or in the summer head to a pool party at Maya Dayclub in Scottsdale.
Chat With Girls Online
Remember when people used to look down at online dating? When it first started to become a thing everyone was ashamed to mention that they had given it a shot. These days if you ask anyone under 25 if they would rather meet someone online or at a singles bar most will choose to use the internet.
The reasons are pretty simple, you have a much wider selection when it comes to trying to meet girls in Phoenix online. You don’t just go out to a pick up bar and hook up with whoever happens to smile at you from across the room.
Instead you can message as many girls as you want, start a conversation, and see if you have anything in common. There are plenty of great dating sites out there to try and find a long term relationship, but what if you just want to get laid with no strings attached? Try out Adult Friend Finder.
There were close to five hundred Phoenix women on this online hook up site at our last check, and around a thousand more across Arizona. They aren’t signing up to Adult Friend Finder because they want to chat about their feelings, they want to hook up and are waiting for guys to message them right now.
Phoenix Dating Guide
Now you know about many of the best spots to meet singles near you, lets turn our attention to where to go on a date. Meeting women is half the battle, you still have plenty of work to do if you are hoping to hook up.
This dating guide for Phoenix will have plenty of recommendations. You can take the links and learn a bit more about each spot if you want, that way you can see if they sound like a place you or your date will like and if they fall within your budget.
Some very nice romantic restaurants for a date would be:
- Steak 44 at 5101 N 44th St
- Postino Wine Cafe with multiple locations
- Kai at the Sheraton Grand at 5594 Wild Horse Pass Blvd
- Different Pointe of View at 11111 N 7th St
- Mora Italian at 5651 N 7th St
- Wright’s at the Biltmore at 2400 E Missouri Ave
- Harumi Sushi & Sake at 114 W Adams St c101
- North Italia in Arcadia & Scottsdale
If you wanted some good cocktail bars for a more casual and likely cheaper date in Phoenix check out:
- The Clever Koi at 4236 N Central Ave #100
- The Dunes Lounge at 3611 W Dunlap Ave
- Cobra Arcade Bar at 801 N. 2nd Street
- The Little Woody at 4228 E Indian School Rd
- The Yard/Culinary Dropout at 5640 N 7th St
- The Ostrich at 7871, 10 N San Marcos Pl in Chandler
Little Woody, The Yard and Cobra Arcade all have different types of games and activities you can do if you think the conversation will be lacking. Of course the pick up bars and nightclubs listed above are not only good for meeting single girls but could also make for a good casual date spot.
You could check out the Downtown Phoenix Art Walk for their First Friday events, or the AZ Science Center also has a wine event on the first Friday of each month that would be a perfect.
Another good cheap date in Phoenix would be to head to one of the numerous comedy clubs in town. Some of our favorites are:
Day Date Ideas
It is pretty easy to find good spots to go out after dark, but finding day dates in Phoenix is a little tougher. That is true of any city actually, but we do have some ideas for you here.
The bars with games we just mentioned like Cobra Arcade would not be a bad choice, or would going to the Phoenix Rock Gym at 1353 E University Dr in Tempe. A great brunch spot is Tuck Shop at 2245 N 12th St.
You could always just pack a picnic and head to outdoor areas like:
- Granada Park
- Encanto Park
- Desert Botanical Garden
- Meteor Crater
- Grand Canyon
One of the biggest parties you can find in this city every year is during the Phoenix Open golf tournament that is usually held during the weekend of the Super Bowl. You don’t hear many golf claps here, this is where the tour lets loose and everyone is out to have a good time.
It would make for a great casual day date and could be a good place to try and hook up as well. For a weekend getaway maybe consider San Diego?
Scottsdale Date & Pick Up Spots
We aren’t going to go too in depth here, but we do have some good spots for a date or to try and pick up single girls in Scottsdale like:
- Wasted Grain at 7295 E Stetson Dr
- Bottled Blonde at 7340 E Indian Plaza #100
- Boondocks Patio & Grill at 4341 N 75th St
- Maya Day & Nightclub at 7333 E Indian Plaza
- Dakota at 7301 E Indian Plaza
- Blue Martini Lounge at 5455 E High St #101
- Rockbar Inc. at 4245 N Craftsman Ct
- The Mint at 7373 E Camelback Rd
- Rusty Spur Saloon at 7245 E Main St
- Twin Peaks at 8787 E Frank Lloyd Wright Blvd
- Eddie V’s Prime Seafood at 15323 N Scottsdale Rd
- Handlebar J at 7116 E Becker Ln
Downtown Scottsdale will have the most pick up bars, and good restaurants for a date night like:
- Roka Akor at 7299 N Scottsdale Rd
- Cafe Monarch at 6939 E 1st Ave
- Mastro’s Steakhouse at 8852 E Pinnacle Peak Rd
- Evo at 4175 N Goldwater Blvd
- FnB Restaurant at 7125 E 5th Ave #31
- T. Cook’s at 5200 E Camelback Rd, at Royal Palms Resort
A good comedy club to cap off your date night is the Scottsdale Comedy Spot at 7117 E 3rd Ave. To meet girls during the day visit shopping malls and areas like:
- Scottsdale Fashion Square
- The Pavilions at Talking Stick Shopping Cente
- Kierland Commons
- Scottsdale Quarter
- The Promenade
For a date during the day go to the Scottsdale Museum of Contemporary Art or the Desert Botanical Garden.
Party With Arizona State Girls In Tempe
Look at any ‘biggest party schools’ list and Arizona State University in Tempe is going to be up near the top of it. So it goes to reason that if you want to hook up with girls in Phoenix going to party near the university wouldn’t be a bad idea.
Many of the best singles bars can be found on Mill Avenue and that would be a great place to try and get laid. Some of our favorite spots to meet Tempe girls are:
- Casey Moore’s Oyster House at 850 South Ash Ave
- Cartel Coffee Lab at 225 West University Drive #101
- Mill Cue Club at 607 S Mill Ave
- Shady Park at 26 E University Dr
Singles Bars In Glendale
We have a couple of good spots to take a date or meet girls in Glendale:
- Tony’s Cocktail Lounge at 5930 W Greenway Rd # 5
- Lucie’s Sage & Sand Bar at 13831 W Glendale Ave
- Kimmyz On Greenway at 5930 W Greenway Rd
Lucie’s is a great spot for a cheap date.
More Choices In Gilbert
And if you are trying to hook up in Gilbert you can probably find some sexy ladies at:
Mesa Dating & Nightlife Guide
When looking for the best singles nightlife in Mesa to pick up girls or go on dates focus on Main Street. Many of the best bars, restaurants, and nightclubs in the city are located here.
Some of the best places to grab a drink or party would be:
- Low Key Piano Bar at 501 S Mill Ave #B101
- Kats Korner at 446 E Broadway Rd
- Karamba Nightclub at 1724 E McDowell Rd
- Denim & Diamonds at 7336 E Main St
- Nile Theater at 105 West Main St
- The HUB Grill & Bar at 1925 S Sossaman Rd
- Roosters Country at 3731 E Main St
- The Grid: Games and Growlers at 525 S Gilbert Rd A-7
- Boulders on Southern at 1010 W Southern Ave #1
- O’Kelley’s Sports Bar & Grill at 2120 W Guadalupe Rd # 16
Good restaurants for your Mesa date night are:
- Vincitorio’s Restaurant at 1835 E Elliot Rd #C109
- Charleston’s Restaurant at 1623 S Stapley Dr
- Golden Gate Chinese Restaurant at 2640 W Baseline Rd
- Cafe Monarch at 1623 S Stapley Dr
- Alessia’s at 5251 E Brown Rd
Enjoy Dating Phoenix Girls
Well, we covered this metro area about as well as we could. If you know of any other spots that are worth checking out then leave them in the comments and we will try to add them to the lists.
As this city continues to grow more single women will be moving in near you. Don’t forget that many of them will hop on Adult Friend Finder when they hope to get laid and don’t yet have a boyfriend to help them out with their little problem.
That wraps up our best places to meet girls in Phoenix and the dating guide, enjoy your time here.