Last updated on December 5th, 2019
If you are looking for the best places to meet girls in Medan with a dating guide then we have you covered. It won’t take us very long to tell you all about where you can pick up single women and also take them out on a date night.
Table of Contents
We always like to begin with the nightlife, then we will move on to meeting single Medan girls during the day or how you can use online dating sites to speed things up. Date night spots and things to do will also be discussed.
Whether you are trying to hook up with Indonesian women that first night or find the woman of your dreams you can do either here.
Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars
Here is a list of the best singles bars and nightclubs to pick up Medan girls:
- XXX3 Club at Yang Lim Plaza 6th Floor, Jl. Emas No.10
- Tobasa Club at Danau Toba International Hotel Jl.Imam Bonjol No.17
- Retrospective Entertainment at Jl. Putri Hijau No.1A, Kesawan
- New Zone Disko at Jalan Mangkubumi No 789
- Shoots Bar at Jl. Kapten Patimura No.423
- De Coffee Bar at Kompleks Cemara Asri, Jl. Blvd Timur D1,66 – 68
- Prime Bar at JW Marriott Hotel, Jalan Putri Hijau No. 10
- Soho Capital at Jalan Putri Hijau No.1A Capital Building 2nd Floor
- Level 02 at Jl. Iskandar Muda, Babura
The main area for singles nightlife can be found around Merdeke Walk. Here you will find lots of restaurants and some bars where people go out in the early to mid-evening.
Many of the best nightclubs to try and pick up Medan girls and maybe get laid are not too far away. In Indonesia you don’t often find a ton of nightlife, but there is always somewhere to party.
We will cover this more in the final section about travel but with so few clubs around expect there to be some prostitutes working in some. Others may even have hostesses who work for the bar and try to get guys to buy them drinks all night. We know what you are thinking, sure you may hook up with a hostess but usually you just waste a lot of money buying them drinks.
Stuff like that can be found in places like Jakarta, Bali, or wherever else you go here and it is pretty common around Asia. There is also a nightclub in the Grand Aston Hotel, it used to be known as Entrance but Entrance is now closed.
When we find out the new name we will update the list accordingly, but even if we don’t mention it you still may want to stop by and see if anything is going on.
Meet Medan Girls During The Day
You are going to have some things working against you if you try to meet Medan girls during the day. The first is the language barrier, most Indonesian women are not good at English and will be very flustered trying to talk to a foreigner.
Plus you have to remember these girls are very conservative, the ones who are out drinking at midnight may be down to hook up but the odds of a random one you approach mid-day at a mall hooking up quick are very slim. However if you see one you just can’t pass up go say hi.
Walking the streets in this country isn’t easy, your best option would be to meet single girls at malls and shopping districts like:
- Medan Mall
- Sun Plaza
- Hermes Place Polonia
- Centre Point
- Grand Palladium Mall
Chat With Girls Online
Any time that you travel to a foreign country there are going to be some things in your favor and others that are not. Let’s begin with the bad news, we doubt you speak the local language, but we could be wrong.
That isn’t a deal breaker, but it puts you at a big time disadvantage to some local men. The second one may be viewed as a positive by some, but foreign men here are always of as rich.
While that can work out in your favor it also will have you attracting more gold diggers and prostitutes than you might be up for. On the flip side that will help you some with the good girls, plus the mere fact that you are exotic and from another land will open a lot of doors for you. Girls here don’t come in contact with foreign men very often and many would love the chance to meet one.
When you total it all up it works out in your favor. We also need to mention there is another way to meet girls in Medan, online dating. This is definitely the quicker and easier option.
The best dating site here is Indonesian Cupid. Start to pipeline before you come so that you can have girls ready and waiting for your arrival in the country.
No matter if you are looking for a quick hook up or someone to spend the rest of your life with online dating on Indonesian Cupid will be the best wingman you will find.
Medan Dating Guide
We just fully covered the best ways to meet single girls near you so now we will pivot to our Medan dating guide. If you hope to get laid then you better be able to show her a splendid time on your date night.
Any of these romantic restaurants or cocktail bars should work out nicely:
- Kito Floral at Jl. Gatot Subroto No.64, Sei Sikambing D
- The Edge at Cambridge Hotel Medan, Jl. S. Parman No.217
- The Kitchen at Jl. Maulana Lubis No. 8, Aryaduta Hotel
- Prime Steak House at Jl. Putri Hijau no. 10, JW Marriott Hotel
- Koki Sunda at Jl. Hasanuddin No.1, Petisah Hulu
- OO Pastries at Jl. S. Parman No.308, Petisah Hulu
- Healy Macs at Ruko Centre Point, 15-16, Jl. Timor Blok M No.23, Gg. Buntu
- The View Music at Cambridge Hotel Medan, Jl. S. Parman No.217
Remember that Merdeka Walk would also be a great spot for a date night.
Day Date Ideas
Getting out to enjoy a sunny day is always a good plan. Here are some good places to take advantage of nice weather outdoors together:
- Gajah Mada Park
- Sri Deli Park
- Sibolangit Waterfall
- Sipiso-Piso Waterfall
While not exactly in the city you could take a quick trip over to Lake Toba or Gunung Sibayaka Volcano for more outdoor activities. The Old House of Sultan is also worth a visit.
For some more sophistication on your date during the day try these museums or landmarks:
- North Sumatra Museum
- Istana Maimun
- Sri Mariamman Temple
Yogyakarta is also a cool city to meet girls, and if you find the right one here bring her there for a weekend and have some fun together. You can find lots of nightlife in Batam, but outside of that there isn’t much to do there.
Tips For Tourists & Expats
This last section will have a little travel advice and talk more about the dating and lack of hook up culture in Indonesia. The local currency is the rupiah and you get roughly 14,000 for every USD as of our most recent update.
That is a big number, the easiest way to do the math is just think of 100,000 as $7 when trying to figure out how much stuff costs. One of the best things you can do here is download the GoJek or Grab Apps.
They are pretty much like Uber as you can get a car or motorbike to pick you up and take you wherever. GoJek offers very cheap food delivery from just about every restaurant as well as some other services.
Try to get a hotel near the nightlife around Merdeke Walk, that way when you do meet girls for dates you can just go there to get some food and have an easy transition back to your hotel if she also wants to get laid. Earlier we mentioned that there might be some prostitutes out in the nightlife, or hostesses who work for the bar trying to get guys to buy them drinks.
This is very common in Asia, and in cities like this one with limited options for nightlife it is pretty hard to not cross paths with them. They also aren’t always easy to spot either. However if you walk into a club and there are far too many cute girls around and not a lot of guys then you can pretty much assume they are being paid to be there.
When it comes to dating or hooking up with Medan girls most are extremely conservative and won’t be interested unless they know you are serious. This is a very conservative country in many ways, sexually included. With that said there are always some around who will give it up quick, they are known as ‘bule hunters’ and they are the girls who really like foreign men.
So if you just want to get laid you should be able to meet some who want the same, but for the most part expect the majority of Indonesian women you come in contact with to take some time and patience. One last note, Ramadan is held every year around May/June and this would not be a great time to visit.
The bars or clubs may be closed down and many girls will be spending a ton of time with their families making it harder to meet them.
Enjoy Dating Medan Girls
Indonesia is a really nice country, it offers a cheap cost of living and very friendly people. While most of the women are conservative if you put in the effort you can find some who want to get laid.
The easiest way to find the ones who are down to hook up will be by using Indonesian Cupid. It will give them the discretion they want where they can have some fun without other people knowing about it.
That wraps up our best places to meet girls in Medan with our dating guide, enjoy your time here.