Last updated on July 8th, 2020
If you are looking for the best places to meet girls in Kansas City and a dating guide you are in the right place. We will cover all you need to know about where to pick up single women and also mention some great spots for a date night.
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The nightlife will be where we begin, meeting single Kansas City girls during the day and how you can use online dating sites to speed things up will follow. Date night ideas and things to do when the sun is still out will also be discussed.
One thing to note is that this city is pretty spread out so choosing the right location to stay is of utmost importance if you are traveling through town hoping to hook up.
Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars
We know that these days a lot of guys will only care about a list of singles bars and nightclubs to pick up Kansas City girls so here it is:
- Mosaic at 1331 Walnut St
- PBR Big Sky at 111 E 13th St
- Funky Town KC at 8300 Blue Pkwy
- Throwback KC at 510 Westport Rd
- Davey’s Uptown Ramblers Club at 3402 Main St
- Aura Kansas City Nightclub at 3832 Main St
- Green Lady Lounge at 1809 Grand Blvd
- Blvd Nights at 2801 Southwest Blvd
- The Granfalloon at 608 Ward Pkwy
- Knuckleheads at 2715 Rochester St
- Howl at the Moon Kansas City at 1334 Grand Blvd
- Sol Cantina at 408 E 31st St
- Madrigall at 1627 Oak St
- Westport Ale House at 4128 Broadway Blvd
- The Brick at 1727 McGee St
- The Brooksider at 6330 Brookside Plaza
The two main areas for singles nightlife would be the Power & Light District (P&L) and Westport which are about a 5 to 10 minute drive from one another. They are both downtown and single girls from all over the area will drive in for them every weekend.
As far as which is better that will come down to personal preference. Try and get a hotel near one of these main nightlife districts if getting laid is one of your main goals as you travel through town.
The singles bars in Westport are a little closer to the Plaza which is by far the best area for day game and date nights so keep that in mind. Outside of those main nightlife districts to try and hook up with Kansas City girls you will find small pockets of bars spread around the city.
We are including a pick up and date night map at the end of this post, if you click on Sol Cantina it is located at Martini Corner where you can find more singles bars. For guys who were hoping to pick up girls in Overland Park head to One Block South in the Rosana Square Shopping Center.
You could also drive a few hours to party with St Louis girls if the nightlife here doesn’t suit you, or as long as class is in session you might have a chance at hooking up in Lawrence which is about 45 minutes away.
Meet Kansas City Girls During The Day
We just mentioned it but the Plaza is going to be the main area for day game. This huge shopping area is perfect for trying to meet girls in Kansas City during the day.
Westport and the Power & Light may also have some passers by when the sun is up, but they are much better after dark. The UMKC campus is located right in this area downtown which means some college girls should be around.
In the summer the Fontaine Hotel sometimes has pool parties which can be a lot of fun. Another option would be to meet single girls at malls like:
- The Plaza
- Legends Outlets
- Oak Park Mall
- Crown Center
- Independence Center
But just as the Power & Light and Westport are kings for singles bars the Plaza reigns supreme for day game.
Chat With Girls Online
A lot of guys are not really sure what they are supposed to do when it comes to dating in the social media age. When you go out to a club doesn’t it feel like you generally see groups of girls at their own table taking selfies and blowing off any guy who comes up to them?
When you walk around during the day do the rare pretty women you see have earbuds in while avoiding eye contact at all times? Most guys prefer to get a look of interest before they approach and those are becoming rarer by the day.
Don’t worry about it, people are hooking up as much or more than ever before. We all just need to take a deep breath and adjust to the times.
To do this you will need to find a way onto a girls phone, but how can you do that? Online dating sites give you a direct line to it. We aren’t going to waste time and tell you about sites for finding your future bride, there are so many to choose from and any will work.
Instead we are going to offer some help to the guys who just want to get laid with no strings attached. Instead of hopping on Loverelationshipmarriage.com or whatever and leading on those who want a serious relationship why not contact girls who just want to hook up like you do?
Adult Friend Finder is the top speed dating site in the world with tens of millions using it to get laid. There are hundreds of single girls in Kansas City using it to hook up, with hundreds more around both Missouri and Kansas and thousands in the Midwest.
All of these women are signing up to Adult Friend Finder to get laid, not to find their future husband. If that is also your goal then give it a shot.
Kansas City Dating Guide
We just talked about plenty of the best ways to meet single girls near you and our Kansas City dating guide can hopefully take you the rest of the way. It is always great when you can set up a date night, but you better be able to show her a good time.
Any of these romantic restaurants or cocktail bars will be good options:
- La Bodega at 703 Southwest Blvd
- Garozzo’s Ristorante at 526 Harrison St
- Lidia’s Kansas City at 101 W 22nd St
- Le Fou Frog at 400 E 5th St
- Pierpont’s at Union Station at 30 W Pershing Rd
- Cafe Trio at 4558 Main St
- Jazz a Louisiana Kitchen at 1823 W 39th St
- Tannin Wine Bar & Kitchen at 1526 Walnut St
- Trezo Mare Restaurant & Lounge at 4105 N Mulberry Dr
- The Kill Devil Club at 31 E 14th St
- Tom’s Town Distilling Co at 1701 Main St
- The Parker at 901 W. 48TH Place
- Monarch Bar at 4808 Roanoke Pkwy
- Mission Taco Joint at East Crossroads at 409 E 18th St
Remember that the Plaza is the easiest spot for a date night in Kansas City. There are many nice restaurants around, it has a good atmosphere, and it is just where people here go for a special night.
You can cap off your date night at the Power & Light or go check out the Improv Comedy Club at 7260 NW 87th St. You could also go see a show at the Starlight Theatre or the Arvest Bank Theatre at the Midland.
Day Date Ideas
Getting out to enjoy a sunny day is never a bad idea, these are some good places to take advantage of nice weather outdoors:
- Shawnee Mission Park
- Loose Park
- Macken Park
- Waterfall Park
- Mill Creek Park
You could go climbing at ROKC at 1501 Howell Street, walk around the Plaza or the River Market, or grab lunch at Joe’s Kansas City downtown at 3002 W 47th St. If you show up to Joe’s and the line is too long, as it usually is, call in your order and do carry out and save a bunch of time.
For some more sophistication on your date during the day try out these museums:
- Nelson Atkins Museum of Art
- Union Station Kansas City
- American Jazz Museum
- Negro Leagues Baseball Museum
And of course there is always the Plaza to fall back on. If you are looking for somewhere to go on a romantic weekend getaway try the Lake of the Ozarks, or head over to Wichita if you have never been.
Enjoy Dating Kansas City Girls
After reading all of the above you should have no problem finding places to pick up single ladies or spots to take them on a date. The game plan should be pretty simple, stay somewhere near the Power & Light, Westport and the Plaza and spend most of your time there if you hope to hook up.
With so many singles bars at the P&L and Westport you don’t really need to try to drive all the way out to one of the smaller bar districts. Plus this downtown area is also loaded with great options for a date night and many things to do during the day.
Don’t forget about all the women on Adult Friend Finder who are always down to get laid. That wraps up our best places to meet girls in Kansas City with our dating guide, enjoy your time here.