Last updated on April 5th, 2019
If you are looking for the best places to meet girls in Seattle and a dating guide then kick off your shoes, lay back, and get the info you are craving. Or keep your shoes on, it really is no matter to us we just want to inform you of the best places to meet single women and take them on dates around the city.
Opinions on this city differ from guy to guy but that is generally true of most places around the world. Some will love it here, others will hate it, only time will tell how it will play out for you.
Table of Contents
We will begin with the best nightclubs and pick up bars to meet single Seattle girls in the nightlife, then talk about some day game options and online dating. From there we will be pivoting to our dating guide for Seattle, meeting some sexy ladies is only one part of a longer mission.
We will also be talking about the demographics of the women here at the end of the post. By the time you finish reading it you will be fully prepared to make your next move whether that is looking for a new girl to hook up with or a good date spot to show your current misses.
Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars
Currently some of the best nightclubs and singles bars to pick up girls in Seattle would be:
- LoFi at 429 Eastlake Avenue E
- Monkey Loft at 2915 1st Ave S
- Trinity Nightclub at 111 Yesler Way
- Q Nightclub at 1426 Broadway
- Baltic Room at 1207 Pine St
- Aston Manor at 2946 1st Ave S
- The Triple Door at 216 Union St
- Amber at 2214 1st Ave
- Lava Lounge at 2226 2nd Ave
You can find some pretty good nightlife here, maybe not world class but as good or better than most. As far as specific bar districts and main areas for singles nightlife where many places to party are walking distance apart you can head to:
- The University District
- Pioneer Square
We suggest you rent a hotel room near one of these to maximize your chances of getting laid. The closer you are staying to the spot where you try to pull a girl from a club the more likely she is to hook up with you. Remember there is a 2am closing time at most bars and clubs in the nightlife here.
You could also go try to meet girls in Tacoma and it isn’t far away at all.
Meet Seattle Girls During The Day
When it comes to day game a lot of that will depend on the weather. If it is nice and sunny out there will be many places to meet women in Seattle during the day, if it is rainy you may need to hit up shopping malls like:
- Westfield Southcenter
- Bellevue Square
- Northgate Mall
- Pacific Place
When the weather is nicer try areas around the Pike Place Market, University Village, and of course you can always try to pick up sexy ladies from other cities who are visiting the Space Needle.
Chat With Girls Online
We are going to get more into the demographics of this city later, but this is known to be a very transient town. That means girls from all over move here to start a new life and they don’t have strong social circles.
In this day and age many of them will be buried in their phones, socially awkward, and not want to get approached by a rando dude on the street. But if you can connect with them on their phones you have a good chance.
That means you need to meet girls in Seattle on online dating sites, there are plenty out there if you are looking for a serious relationship, but if you just want to hook up Adult Friend Finder is your only answer. Sure, you could meet a girl who just wants to get laid on a serious dating site, but they can be pretty rare.
Adult Friend Finder is all about hooking up with other singles who aren’t ready to start a long term commitment, there are hundreds of women in Seattle using this site to get laid and hundreds more around Washington.
Seattle Dating Guide
That covers our best places and ways to meet single ladies near you and our Seattle dating guide is about to kick into full gear. There are plenty of great spots to show women a good time in this city, and you can always hit up a club after you get a nice meal.
Some of the best romantic restaurants or cocktail bars for a date in Seattle are:
- The Pink Door at 1919 Post Alley
- Serafina at 2043 Eastlake Ave E
- Palisade Restaurant at 2601 W Marina Pl
- Tulio at 1100 5th Ave
- Café Presse at 1117 12th Ave
- Mox Boarding House at 5105 Leary Ave NW
- Rumba at 1112 Pike St
- Bathtub Gin & Co. at 2205 2nd Ave
- Canon at 928 12th Ave
There is a thriving comedy scene here, two of the best clubs in town to hear some jokes are Laughs Comedy Club and The Comedy Nest. Check those links to see if any comedians you like are coming to town soon, and for a more mature date see an opera or play at the Marion Oliver McCaw Hall.
Day Date Ideas
For day dates you really should take advantage of the nice weather if you can find it. This area of the country is known for its natural beauty, enjoy it at these places:
- Gas Works Park
- Kerry Park
- Waterfall Garden
- Volunteer Park Conservatory
The Pacific Science Center is worth checking out, the Bellevue Botanical Gardens, or just head to Flatstick Pub or Shorty’s which are two cool bars that offer games and things to do so you don’t have to talk the whole time.
For a weekend getaway go check out Portland.
Enjoy Dating Seattle Girls
Now that we have covered all the venues you need to know lets talk about the demographics here, but it isn’t easy. As we mentioned before Seattle girls are often from other cities, this is one of the main spots for people to ‘run away.’
Teens who run away from their parents, homeless people, and many ‘hipsters’ come here because they have heard it is such a cool city. In some ways that can work for you, in other ways it hurts.
The good news is that many don’t have a strong social circle and will want someone to hang out with. The bad news is they may not know they want that. It is also important to remember that there are tons of homeless people living here so if you do want to approach a single woman on the street you need to do it with caution and back off if she freaks out.
You can find some great ethnic diversity, and if you like Asian women there will be plenty around you. The feminism movement is strong though, so don’t be surprised if some go off on you over small things.
Oh ya, lots of people here smoke weed. That can be a pretty easy way to find girls to hook up with. All in all it can be a fun town, or you may not like it, only you can find the answer. Remember the single women on Adult Friend Finder are here to help you get laid if you find yourself in any slumps.
That wraps up our best places to meet girls in Seattle and the dating guide, enjoy your time here.