If you are looking for the best places to meet women in Seattle and a local dating guide then kick off your shoes, lay back, and get the info you are craving. Or keep your shoes on, it really is no matter to us we just want to inform you of the best places to meet single girls and take them on dates around town.
We will begin with the best nightclubs and pick up bars to meet single Seattle women in the nightlife, then talk about some day game options and online dating. From there we will be pivoting to our dating guide for Seattle, meeting some sexy ladies is only one part of a longer mission.
We will also be talking about the demographics of the women in your area at the end of the post. By the time you finish reading it you will be fully prepared to make your next move whether that is looking for girls near you to hook up with or a good date spot to show your current misses.
Hot Seattle Women At Clubs & Bars
Currently some of the best nightclubs and singles bars to pick up women in Seattle would be:
- Monkey Loft at 2915 1st Ave S
- Trinity Nightclub at 107 Occidental Ave S
- Kremwerk at 1809 Minor Ave #10
- Q Nightclub at 1426 Broadway
- Sarajevo Nightclub at 2218 Western Ave #100
- Vue Lounge at 2326 2nd Ave
- Neumos at 925 E Pike St
- Ora at 2330 1st Ave
- Rhino Room at 1535 11th Ave
- The Triple Door at 216 Union St
- Forum Social House at 700 Bellevue Way NE #300
- Red Lounge at 1212 E Jefferson St
- The Underground at 122 S Washington St
- Havana at 1010 E Pike St
You can find some pretty good local nightlife, maybe not world class but as good or better than most. As far as specific bar districts and main areas for singles nightlife where many places to party are walking distance apart you can head to:
- Fremont
- The University District
- Pioneer Square
- Belltown
- Capitol Hill
We suggest you rent a hotel room near one of these to maximize your chances of getting laid. The closer you are staying to the spot where you try to pull from a club the more likely you will be to hook up with Seattle women.
Remember there is a 2am closing time at most bars and clubs in the nightlife in your area. We also wrote a guide for how to meet girls in Tacoma, plus you an always take the 2.5 hour drive North to try and hook up with Vancouver ladies.
Meet More Girls During The Day
When it comes to day game a lot of that will depend on the weather. If it is nice and sunny out there will be many places to meet single Seattle women during the day, if it is rainy you may need to hit up shopping malls like:
- Westfield Southcenter
- Bellevue Square
- Northgate Mall
- Pacific Place
When the weather is nicer try areas around the Pike Place Market, University Village, and of course you can always try to find girls near you from other cities who are visiting the Space Needle.
Local Online Dating
We are going to get more into the demographics of this city later, but it is known to be a very transient town. That means ladies from all over move here to start a new life and they don’t have strong social circles.
In this day and age many of them will be buried in their phones, socially awkward, and not want to get approached by a rando dude on the street. But if you can connect with them on their phones you have a good chance.
That means you need to meet women in Seattle on online dating sites, there are plenty out there if you are looking for a serious relationship, but if you just want to hook up Adult Friend Finder is your only answer. Sure, you could meet a girl in your area who just wants to get laid on a serious dating site, but you also might need to wait four dates for a hug.
Adult Friend Finder is all about hooking up with other singles who aren’t ready to start a long term commitment, there are hundreds of local women in Seattle using this site to get laid and hundreds more around Washington.
Seattle Dating Guide
That covers our best places and ways to meet single women near you and our Seattle dating guide is about to kick into full gear. There are plenty of great spots to show singles a good time in this city, and you can always hit up a club after you get a nice meal.
Some of the best romantic restaurants or cocktail bars for a date in Seattle are:
- The Pink Door at 1919 Post Alley
- Serafina at 2043 Eastlake Ave E
- Palisade Restaurant at 2601 W Marina Pl
- Tulio at 1100 5th Ave
- Mox Boarding House at 5105 Leary Ave NW
- Altura at 617 Broadway E
- Rumba at 1112 Pike St
- Bathtub Gin & Co. at 2205 2nd Ave
- Archipelago at 5607 Rainier Ave S
- The Fireside Room at 900 Madison St
- Canon at 928 12th Ave
- Hillside Bar at 1520 E Olive Way
- Shibuya HiFi Vinyl Bar at 4912 Leary Ave NW
There is a thriving comedy scene here, two of the best clubs to hear some jokes are Laughs Comedy Club and The Comedy Nest. Check those links to see if any comedians you like are coming to town soon, and plenty of Seattle ladies would enjoy going to play games at Hillside Bar too.
For a more mature date see an opera or play at the Marion Oliver McCaw Hall.
Day Date Ideas
For day dates you really should take advantage of nice weather if you can find it. This area of the country is known for its natural beauty and many local women will enjoy places like:
- Gas Works Park
- Kerry Park
- Waterfall Garden
- Volunteer Park Conservatory
- Olympic Sculpture Park
The Pacific Science Center is worth checking out, the Bellevue Botanical Gardens, or just head to Flatstick Pub or Shorty’s which are two cool bars that offer games and things to do so you don’t have to talk the whole time.
There are also some cool museums like:
- Museum of Pop Culture
- Seattle Art Museum
- Pacific Science Center
- Henry Art Gallery
- Frye Art Museum
- Northwest African American Museum
You could take a cooking class at Book Larder, or show Seattle women the city from high above as you take a hot air balloon ride on your date. There are plenty of single women in Portland if this city isn’t working out, or it can also be a great spot for a weekend getaway with the right lady.
Enjoy Dating Seattle Women
Now that we have covered all the venues you need to know lets talk about the demographics here, but it isn’t easy. As we mentioned before Seattle women are often from other cities, this is one of the main spots for people to ‘run away.’
The good news is that many don’t have a strong social circle and will want someone to hang out with. The bad news is they may not know they want that. It is also important to remember that with so many homeless people living here if you do want to approach single girls near you on the downtown streets you need to do it with caution and back off if she freaks out.
You can find some great ethnic diversity, and if you like Asian women there will be plenty around you. The feminism movement is strong though, so don’t be surprised if some go off on you over small things.
Oh ya, lots of people here smoke weed. That can be a pretty easy way to find girls to hook up with. All in all it can be a fun town, or you may not like it, only you can find the answer. Remember the single ladies on Adult Friend Finder are here to help you get laid if you find yourself in any slumps.
That wraps up our best places to meet women in Seattle and the dating guide, enjoy your time here.
I went a honesty person who focus and ready for a serious relationship.
As someone who has never been to a nightclub, gets anxiety going to bars, and hasn’t been laid in almost 2 years, meeting women let alone high quality women at these places sounds next to impossible.
I have lived in Seattle for about 10 years and I have been single for 5 years i don’t go to bars, I’m looking to get in a relationship a honest person soul mate. I’m 59 years old ant getting any younger. Thanks Glenn.
Hello, my name is Chris Adorno as I just moved here to PNW I am trying to find my special someone! I’m 35 years old willing to make a new friend! Hit me up!
I love dancing BTW!
Quit your desperation and don’t idol women or you will forever be a cuck.