Last updated on November 4th, 2019
If you are looking for the best places to meet girls in Beijing and a dating guide for this city then we have you covered. It won’t be long until you know where to pick up single women and some great date spots.
We assume most reading this are foreign men from other countries since it is written in English. For that reason most of this post will be geared towards tourists, though we think most locals could learn a thing or two from it also.
If our assumption is correct then we suggest you stick around for the travel and Chinese dating culture tips that are coming at the end. Before that we will begin with the best nightclubs and pick up bars to meet single girls in Beijing.
Table of Contents
After the nightlife has been fully covered we will talk about places to try and meet women during the day plus online dating deserves a shout out. Our dating guide will follow, this is where you can read about some of the best romantic restaurants and cocktail bars in the city.
Plus some activities to do during the day, and then the travel section. No matter if you need to show the wife a good time or want to hook up with a new girl you will find the info you need here.
Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars
Currently some of the best singles bars and nightclubs to pick up Beijing girls are:
- Vic’s at Worker Stadium North Gate
- Mix Club at Workers’ Stadium N Rd
- Mei Bar at 5/F, Jing Guang Centre, Hujialou
- Element at 58 Gongti Xilu
- Latte at Gongti Beilu
- Space One at No.1 Sanlitun South Road
- Modo Ultra Club at 4F U-Town Shopping Mall Chaowai Street Chaoyang District
- V Plus Lounge at Top Floor, Building No.3, China Red Street
- Chocolate Nightclub Beijing at No.19 Ritan North Road, Chaoyang District
- Paddy O’Shea’s at 28 Dongzhimenwai Dajie
- Maggie`s Bar at Jianwai Street
The singles nightlife where we always like to start because it is where most guys prefer to try and hook up. Well there are plenty of good pick up bars to meet single women in Beijing, but lets have a quick chat about two of them.
If you read most travel blogs they are going to mostly talk about Vic’s and Mix. These are the two main nightclubs that foreign men frequent making them worth mentioning, but also the easiest to cover.
The problem is that like in many places around the world the known expat bars in town are usually filled with prostitutes. We are going to list them also because they can be good places to pick up women from other countries, but many of the local girls you find inside are hookers or even ladyboys.
The main area for singles nightlife is the Sanlitun bar district, if you plan to do a lot of partying we suggest you book your hotel room as close to there as possible to improve your chances of getting laid. Another area with solid nightlife is Guluo, but the Sanlitun adult entertainment district is generally the best for hooking up.
Meet Beijing Girls During The Day
Can you speak any Mandarin? If so then you might be able to pull this off, if not you are going to need a lot of luck on your side. Most Chinese girls don’t speak any English, in a big city like Beijing more women will know some words, but more doesn’t mean a lot.
Most likely you will walk up to a girl, say hello, and the conversation will go nowhere from there. Day game is a time consuming thing anywhere, even more so if you can’t communicate.
However if you want to try some of the biggest malls and shopping districts in the city are:
- The Place
- Beijing Parkview Green
- Wangfujing Street
- Beijing Yintai Center
- The Malls at Oriental Plaza
With how densely populated things are here street approaches probably won’t be possible with so much commotion all around. As we will talk about more in the last section walking up to a stranger and saying hello just isn’t part of the culture.
Chat With Girls Online
This is a pretty weird country for foreign men to visit. The language is very hard to decipher, the culture is completely different then what you are probably used to, and it can feel like the local women don’t have any interest in dating you at all.
That isn’t the case, you just need to find the right ones. How many single girls live in Beijing? It is in the millions, and it doesn’t take a high percentage of them to want to date or hook up with foreign men for you to swing the numbers in your favor.
You can visit the expat pick up bars and hope you aren’t chatting with a hooker or ladyboy, or you can use ChinaLoveCupid. This is a massive online dating site with tens of thousands of users and you can find tons of single ladies in this city.
They won’t all want to date foreign men, but plenty will and that is all you need. Log on to ChinaLoveCupid a week or two before your trip to get the ball rolling, that way you can have some dates set before your plane even touches the ground.
Beijing Dating Guide
Now you are aware of the best places and ways to meet single girls near you and our Beijing dating guide can help you seal the deal. This is a really fun city with lots to see and do so finding a good date spot will be pretty easy.
You could start out your date night by visiting one of these romantic restaurants or cocktail bars:
- TRB Hutong at No.23, Songzhu Temple, Shatan N St
- Lost Heaven Beijing at No.23, Qian Men Dong Da Jie
- 1949 The Hidden City at Workers’ Stadium N Rd, 4
- Le Pre Lenotre at Tower C, Wanda Plaza, 93 Jianguo Road
- Il Ristorante Niko Romito at Building 2 Courtyard No. 8 Xinyuan South Road
- Fratelli Fresh at 61 Dongsanhuan Middle Road
- Infusion Room at D Lounge Upper Level, Courtyard 4, Gongti Beilu
- The Tiki Bungalow at 46, Fangjia Hutong
- Botany Concept at Yongli International Apartment building 2, room 1209
- Black Moth at 4/F Nali Patio, 81 Sanlitun Beijie
Afterwards you could hit up a nightclub, or you may want to take her out for karaoke. It may not sound fun for you, but nothing will put a Chinese girl in a good mood like karaoke.
Just remember to pick a family style karaoke joint, often times these can be dens for prostitution so if they offer to have any ladies accompany you in the room choose another one.
You could also see a Chinese take on Cirque du Soleil style entertainment at the Chaoyang Theatre.
Day Date Ideas
If the weather is nice take advantage of it. A sunny afternoon can make for a great date no matter what you are doing. Walk around:
- Jingshan Park
- Beihai Park
- Yuanminguan Park
Or head to the 798 Art District, this is a good area for a date during the day but also could have been mentioned in the day game section. Some museums and landmarks worth spending time at are:
- The Palace Museum
- Temple of Heaven
- Confucius Temple
- Lama Temple
You could also head over to the Great Wall of China. For a weekend getaway think about visiting Guangzhao.
Tips For Tourists & Expats
Now we are going to give some travel tips and talk about the Beijing dating culture a bit. As mentioned before staying near the nightlife in Sanlitun will be best if picking up girls after dark is your goal.
You can get yourself familiarized with the metro system here, the local currency is the Yuan and you currently get around 7 for ever $1 USD though the exchange rate fluctuates. This is a massive, crowded, and polluted city so be prepared for that. It also isn’t the easiest place to navigate so we included a map with the best pick up and date spots noted.
When it comes to the dating culture there are definitely important things to know. Asian people are very passive, Chinese guys don’t really approach strangers often which means if you do have the balls to make the approach you are ahead of the game.
A lot of single women in Beijing will have an interest in dating foreign men, but if they can’t speak English they may not know how or where to begin. If you can learn even a little Mandarin it will improve your chances of getting laid greatly.
When it comes to dating Asian girls remember to smile a lot, be happy, and try to have a good time. They aren’t looking for you to game them, they just want to see that you are a nice guy so they can open up to you.
Losing face is big in Asian culture so don’t get angry. If they do something you don’t like brush it off and move on, overall foreign men have it very easy here, you just need to put in a little effort and be a nice guy to hook up.
Enjoy Dating Beijing Girls
Well that is all the info we have. We do want to point out that nightlife can change quickly and we want to keep this post as up to date as possible. If anything has changed by the time you visit town please let us know in the comments.
Also remember to use ChinaLoveCupid to meet single women. A week or two before your trip should be plenty of time to get some dates planned and hopefully hook up.
That wraps up our best places to meet girls in Beijing and the dating guide, enjoy your time here.